Shai Fishman & Lea Aella
When Shai & Lea started their polyamorous relationship a few years ago, they were unclear on the many facets of open relating, so they struggled!They did not fully understand their individual needs and desires when it came to open-relating. They were not aware that there are many styles of open relating. They didn’t know how their different attachment styles would play into their relating strategies. Ultimately, they were not equipped with the best tools or proper guidance, so they suffered needlessly. Over 5 years they amassed a wealth of knowledge, both through research and personal experience and grew a strong desire to help others. So they created Leveled Up Love, Sacred Sexuality & Conscious Communication {for relationships by design}, a thriving Facebook community of 6,000+ beautiful souls from 95+ countries.Shai & Lea are now considered two of the go-to people for ethical non-monogamy. They've built a worldwide brand that includes Community, Dating, Events, Education & Coaching. Their mission is to help partners thrive, not just survive, in conscious open relationships.What differentiates Lea & Shai in their teachings is that they see ethical non-monogamy as a vehicle for deep healing & personal growth. They cover subjects such as attachment styles, love languages, erotic blueprints, sacred sexuality, conscious communication, somatic/trauma healing, plant medicine and more.Many non-monogamous partners are surrounded by friends & family who just don’t know how to support them in their unique open relationship struggles. When they think of professional support, many find blocks around cost or even finding a therapist who doesn’t think their love-style is unhealthy.This inspired Lea & Shai to create The Secure Poly VIP Membership, a discreet, higher touch, heart-centered support program for open relating, where you'll find the best coaches, tools & resources.
